Man, does that irritate me. When my daughter was still in diapers, I got a lecture from a co-worker (no kids but "I have nieces and nephews") on how bad it was to use disposable diapers and a "good parent" would use cloth diapers and wash them. My wife had a childless co-worker (again with "nieces and nephews") go on at length about what a lazy parent she (my wife) is because we had child-proof doorknobs, a gate across the stairs, etc. and a "good parent" would be attentive enough and not need to child-proof everything, that's just being lazy. Grrr! Does this happen to other people too, or are my wife and I being singled out?